Ok so i have fully come out to my family and not my friends. I am terrified what will happen if my friends find out that i am gay. My mom says that it will be a total shock to them because im so masculine. I am looked upon as the strong a normal person in all of my groups. Im entering my senior year in college and am really scared to go to a pride meeting because some of my friends are gay and will see me. im pretty sure they will tell my straight friends and have everything be out of my control. anyone been in this situation??? any advice??
I don't think the backlash will be as significant as you think. Just go to a support group or something. Your gay friends will be happy and your straight friends will probably not care (let's be honest, the majority of college kids are very liberal), and those who do will simply stop being your friend.