So I have been asking myself this for a long time and I think it's time I get some other views. I am having a hard time figuring out whether I'm gay or bi. I feel really stupid saying that, but I honestly don't know. I have always dated girls. I have done sexual things with guys and loved it. But I have never been in a relationship with a guy. Everytime I want to I end up dating a girl. I really am starting to think its because I know how to date a girl (if that makes any sense). I am really nervous to date a guy, but I just don't wanna be with a girl. I hardly find them attractive anymore. Just wondering if anyone has been in a similar situation and could help me straighten out my train wreck of a mind.:bang:
I feel ya. Im dealing with the same issue. For now I identify as bi because i have never been in a relationship with a female nor done anything with one. Part of me wants to know if and when i date a female, if it'll feel different than dating a guy. Honestly, i am attracted to guys but there is no connection mentally or sexually when in a relationship with one. Id say just take it one day at a time. There is no need to have to know right away if youre gay or bi. Just enjoy things as they come and in time im sure itll make sense. Sorry if that advice isnt very good.
I just came out as gay and its such a different world. I used to only date girls too so it is kinda weird to accept my feelings I have for guys. Over time you get used to it and it becomes like a regular part of your life when you date a guy. It is just where you have lived your life as a heterosexual so you arent used to living a gay life. No worries. Just do what makes you happy and everything will work out.
It sounds like you're more gay than bi. You're dating girls because it's what you know and are comfortable with, not because it's what you really want. And you said yourself you don't want to be with one and no longer find them attractive.
