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He wants me back

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by cutieboy201, Nov 11, 2012.

  1. cutieboy201

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    Hey um my ex who is bi but more straight stopped talking to me for a month and when he finally did talk he told me he was straight and broke my heart and after 2 months he came to me and said "I realize i still Love you" Should i let him back? i do miss him....
     
  2. MixedNutz

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    So does that mean he's not straight?
     
  3. BrokenGuy

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    Just be really careful! I would hate for your heart to be broken twice.
    I am wondering the same thing as MixedNutz. Now that he has reestablished contact with you, and has come to the realization that he loves you as well; is that him saying to you that he is not straight, or less straight now? Ask him what this means, and that will put you in a better position to work out if you should take him back.
     
  4. cutieboy201

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    He told me he is bi and he was confused
     
  5. Dekucha

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    Well I think that you need to hang around him more often, most times when people just make a decision and are confused then most likely their head is is filled up and they are really stressed, so just say not yet in a friendly tone :slight_smile:
     
  6. Zillion

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    I'm sorry to hear this. I would find out if he has someone on the side, maybe a girlfirend or something. You might be just a backup plan. These type of guys can be a lot of work, you have to decide if he's worth it.