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So,there's this guy, and...

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Tabb, Nov 15, 2012.

  1. Tabb

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    I actually posted about him before. It ended in me thinking he was straight, but ever since then I've still be really confused about it.

    So I'm not going to ask anything like how to find out if he is or what, but rather this:

    If he is gay or bi, and he does like me, he wouldn't just ask me out right away, would he?

    Like. I'm assuming that he isn't just going to ask me out because he knows I'm gay. If he liked me, he'd want to know if I liked him back before doing anything, right?

    Thanks for any responses. :slight_smile:
     
  2. BudderMC

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    Well, yes and no. It largely depends on the people involved.

    I mean, if you're both of the type of people who want to know both parties are interested before proceeding, you get stuck in this stalemate of sorts where nobody will make a move.

    You could also have a guy who's just really shy and afraid to make a move. Or maybe he's not actually into you.

    Bottom line, if you're interested in him, maybe you should talk to him. :wink: