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I Need Some Advice Here

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by standtall00, Nov 20, 2012.

  1. standtall00

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    I'm desperate. I'm supposedly, hopefully going to my boyfriends house on Saturday or Sunday, but he has to clean around the house. He said he cleaned a bit...but that was Saturday? And he said he cleaned some Sunday. Then I asked him if he was going to clean yesterday, he said: Don't ask about it. So I didn't bother him today about it either. He also has to ask his mom if I can come over. He hasn't even done that! I'm kind of worried because I really want him to get things done, but when I remind him, he gets annoyed. What should I do?? :bang:
     
  2. Jacek

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    Don't try to push him, he might be shy and nervous or something...just offer to hang out somewhere else if you want to see him:slight_smile: I had a girl (before I was out) who always wanted to come over and it kinda annoyed me... Just be patient he'll invite you over soon enough:slight_smile:
     
  3. standtall00

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    Well we've been talking about this for weeks. He wants me over too. But he has to clean his house because it's a mess. He promised me he would clean it. But he's getting pretty lazy about it :/

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    I also wanted to know if I should ask about it Friday if he doesnt mention anything until then?
     
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    Just say that you don't care if his house is not clean yet. Then, if he really wants you over at his place too, then he'll let you go. But if he insists about the cleaning, then I'd stop asking about it.