so, last year i came out to 4 close friends (all seperately, a month or two apart each). and then last week, i was hanging out with my friend and i came out to her as well. her reaction wasn't bad, just confusing. she asked who knew and i told her a few of our friends and then she frowned. i was like "crap. shes not gonna take this well..." but she semi-did. she said she accepted me but thought that 5 people knowing was like keeping a secret from everyone else and since i had come out to them i should come out to everyone. like i had to be completely in or all the way out. anyone else get a reaction like this?
I think that's the risk you run when you come out, some people can't keep their mouth shut. But I don't think you have to tell everyone right away. I don't plan on telling anyone else ever, but that's me.