I am freaking out,i always(whole day) asking myself am i lesbian,bi,str8? I just looking in one guy(he is gay i think),he is very cute and i am thinking:"if i am lesbian,he maybe know". And every time when my friend(female) try to hug me i feel anxiety(i think:"if i feel something i must be lesbian"). I want boyfriend and sex with him(i like now one boy who is older than me,and my heart beats faster,i can't walk when i see him,i flirt),but my past is following me(masturbation to girls,porns).What to do and wtf am i?
You could be bi. But maybe not. I think your in too much of a rush to figure things out- relax. It takes time to figure out who you are, especially if you're still young (I don't know how old you are). You don't need to figure out what you are right away. Take some time to think about it. You might not be able to figure it out for a while.
Hey thank you for helping me.I wrote one thread before.I am almost 17 years old girl,and my crushes are on boys,but before i thought about girls in porn(not in real) sexually.
It sounds like you could be bi, but you won't really know for sure until you've tried both you could try taking some tests online to see what they say also.
can you tell me how did you know that you are bi and when? I did all tests and 70% says i am str8,and other that i am bi. I know i can't be 100% str8 because i masturbate imagining women.
Well, I had some dreams about dating my friends, which was really weird. One day I had a perticularly realistic dream about my best friend (girl), and it left me feeling guilty all day long (I live in a homophobic town). After talking to my mom about it, I realized that if I did like girls, that it would be okay. A few weeks later I was watching pretty little liars and realized I had a crush on Emily (lol). more and more moments like this built up until I finally realized that I did like girls, but I figured I must be bi sinse I was in love with my boyfriend eventually I found my way to to this site which really helped me admit it to myself. It's just kind of a long process of coming to terms with yourself and figuring out what you do and don't like it took me about 6 monthes after the first "am I bi?"thought lol
Well, while taking those tests are fun, I wouldn't take them seriously. I think you can know if you're attracted to both sexes without ever actually being with them. I started questioning when I was your age and well, I'm still trying to sort out my feelings. I think your thoughts during masturbation is a clear indication that women turn you on. I think you should explore your feelings for women, don't deny your feelings--it's been my biggest regret. Lexi, I started having dreams about this girl and they felt so real. I felt the same same way as you, I was ashamed that I felt somewhat responsible for my thoughts.
Here's a way of finding out. Ask yourself are you Sexually and intimately attractred to both males and females? if you are then you are most definitely bi. or are you sexually and intimately attracted to boys but only intimately attracted to girls? or sexually attracted to girls? and the other way around? Like me i am most definitely gay because i am both sexually and intimately attracted to boys, but i am only intimately attracted to girls. I consider myself 90% gay. Ask yourself those questions, and see if you can rate yourself on your percentage. Know one can actually everknow for sure but yourself, though. Believe in yourself and follow your heart.
I don't feel like i want girl to have sex with me,or in relationship.But i notice that lesbian and str8 kisses don't turn me on,but gay guys does.Wtf that mean?I don't know really what to think
