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how to respond to this

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by smartguy, Feb 14, 2008.

  1. smartguy

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    so i was talking at lunch with one of my friends and the topic of homosexuality came up.

    her: how can you know if you're gay unless you've experimented etc. (this was rhetorical, b/c she doesn't know about me)

    me: well would you go up to a girl and make out with her?

    her: yea, why not

    LOL

    i just stopped talking after that
     
  2. jroakwood

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    lmao. hahah.
    i wouldnt know what to say either. hahah.
     
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    me:hmmm I wouldn't
     
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    ^ Exactly. xD

    She doesn't seem homophobic, if she's willing to make out with a girl.
    Come out to her?
     
  5. smartguy

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    nah, we aren't that close. not that i don't trust her (i would probably tell if she asked)
     
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    I'd just be like... well.... rock on.
     
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    Think about coming out so you can correct her views of "you don't know you're gay until you've experimented".

    =P