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Should I come out as gay to everyone and on Facebook?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by TheLonelyOne, Nov 26, 2012.

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I just feel like I'm hiding behind a fake mask and missing opportunities. Maybe that's why past things haven't worked out for me? Cause I fully didn't accept myself and wasn't being honest with everyone. The only thing is I'd like to if it naturally happen get with a girl, but I'm afraid if I come out as gay that may never happen but is that even worth it?

#1 TheLonelyOne, Nov 26, 2012
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it sounds like you're probably not clear and sure your orientation and/or accept yourself fully yet...

why not wait until then? and plus, some things you don't have to tell everyone...

#2 Ticklish Fish, Nov 26, 2012
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Well, I'm 22 now and I just feel like when I'm talking to people I'm lying. I use her or she instead of him or he. I feel like I'm never myself and I'm depressed. I'm 99% sure I'm gay but I really want to be straight and the 1% wants me to try being with a girl. I just feel awkward anymore. I've only had true feeling for one guy and he was the only person I ever really liked. :icon_sad:

#3 TheLonelyOne, Nov 26, 2012

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