Crazy Anxiety!

It might mean something, it might not. Your best bet - play it cool. Respond to those texts like you're confused. "Are these song lyrics? I don't know if I know them. But if they aren't, maybe you should make them into songs yourself. " If she keeps hinting, make her make the "big reveal". "Can I ask why you're sending me this stuff?"

Lex

 

Call your friend or confront her in person and ask her if she told this girl that you're a lesbian and that you like her. If your friend did, and the girl you liked isn't attracted to females or otherwise does not wish to date you just try to move on. Nothing gained in allowing your feelings for her to linger if there's no chance of a relationship working out.

 

What makes you so sure you've lost a friendship? You should talk to Marge about what happened, as you have no way of knowing what she makes of the situation for certain right now. Random stories and strange texts aren't a good way to sort out problems.

 

It's possible. It's also possible that she won't. Talking to her about this should yield an answer pretty quickly.

 

She knows you like her "like that".
She apparently doesn't like you "like that".
But she still likes you. She's still texting you.
So let's pretend you had this conversation.

"I've decided I might like you as something more than a friend."
"That's really flattering, but I'm afraid I don't feel the same way about you."
"Well, that's disappointing."
"I can imagine. We can still be friends, though."
"OK."

Now continue on as before. You don't have to bring it up again, because in essence, you had that conversation.

Lex

 

Say something like "So I take it Diana told you?" Hopefully her response would be 'yes.' But if It isn't, say "I know she told you that I'm a lesbian. She told me so herself." If she confirms that Diana told her, go on to ask her if she's still your friend. That's the big thing you want to know, right? It's best to just be direct. If she says "yes" then yayayay, you have a cool friend. If she says "No," ask her why, and do your best to convince her that nothing has changed and that you're still the same person she knew yesterday. If she's still reluctant, just give it time. If she never accepts you, then fuck her. If she ends your friendship over a petty matter like this, she probably won't be swayed.

 

Simely face included? That's a pretty good sign. Good luck, man.

 

If you want to, say exactly that.

 

Mmmm, it could be normal. I've seen no official statistics about coming out experiences and I doubt there are any. It doesn't matter if your experience is normal though.

 

What was the last thing she sent you? She's probably just doing something else.

 

There's no reason to draw this out. You have the answer you need. She likes you, not like that. Thank her for being a good friend, and move on.

Lex