What should I do? My side: -Realized my sexuality in 8th grade when I fell in love with my first crush. -Still in love with the same person. -Friend gave hints to my crush and he figured it out. Scenarios: 1. Stares 2. Said (Happy Birthday, -name-) to me when he got to my desk while passing out classwork. My good friend said he sounded sincere when he said it? If that means anything. I don't know if you can tell just by hearing it as another person. But, it was soft. 3. Walked into class and said 'Sup -name-' to me, softly and I couldn't really hear. 4. When I ignored him after he said 'sup' to me, he told his friends D: a. the first group of friends he told, in the same class, gave me looks. b. the second group, the day after, all his friends looked at me. He didn't. 5. He's normally loud with his friends. 6. When I talked to him during freshman year, (I was tricked into talking to him since I had no confidence to do it myself) he had a smile on his face while talking to me although the topic was kind of strange. (Referring to scene 6, my friend lied to me, saying that he wanted to say something to me) So, that's why I asked. LOL What I summarize: -Confused on his own sexuality? -He's dated in middle school (once). -He's just being nice to me? -He's not really sure if I like him so he's just being gentle? My problems: -Heart races -I get all hot and nervous. Hints? Tips?
If you're out of the closet, just tell him you like him. If not, make friends with him, and plan to come out of the closet at some point in the future. If neither of those sound good, you're not ready for an intimate relationship, so give up on that and just be polite to him.
Its kinda hard to tell without actually knowing him... He is otherwise probably just being friendly or he could be hitting on you. Hard to tell!
I want to be nice to him too and to let him know that I'm open? I guess I really want him to make a move. Maybe he's shy. He doesn't act confident around me at all. LOL ---------- Post added 4th Dec 2012 at 08:37 PM ---------- He's a sweetie. Never thought he'd actually be nice to me ahaha
Since I didn't want to make a separate post about this: Is it a good thing if he touches my desk and looks down at me when he walks in the room?
