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Am I bisexual or gay?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by jjaack, Dec 4, 2012.

  1. jjaack

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    To start off I'm a 17 year old guy.
    For as long as I remember, I liked girls. I had a first crush on a girl in kindergarten and had crushes since then. I currently like this girl at my school and I want to be her boyfriend but I like guys too.
    When I'm attracted to a guy, I don't develop crushes on them, I just want to hook up with him. No relationships.
    With girls its different. When I'm attracted to a girl, I develop a crush and go after them wanting a relationship and to hold their hands, kiss them, and cuddle and all the mushy relationship things but I'm not interested in sex with girls.

    So what's up? People say I'm gay because I'm not physically attracted to girls, but I still like them?
     
  2. gordilocks

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    sounds like you're homosexual biromantic or smthng
     
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    So this is your orientation in whole?: Asexual-heterosexual - aromantic-homosexual

    I would personally go by the label bisexual if this was my sexual orientation.
     
  4. gordilocks

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    actually, i'd say you're more like heteroromantic homosexual. but yeah, i'd probs just call myself bi