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should i meet him?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by biisme, Feb 17, 2008.

  1. biisme

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    ok...so... i met a guy on facebook!

    he lives right near me, he's a year and a half older and he makes me laugh. my friends and i are going ice skating on friday IN the town he goes to school in (20 min away).

    should i meet him for the first time there? b/c....i'll be with a huge group of friends...
     
  2. Wired106

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    Depends... is he hot? lol jk... Ya go for it if you'll be with a bunch of friends :slight_smile:
     
  3. InaRut

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    But biisme...we just started such a lovely relationship...

    I guess it's over? I can go back to being gay?

    Seriously though (since this is the support section) I don't think there is anything wrong with it.
    1) You'll be with friends so it's more safe then if you were alone
    2) He isn't an older man trying to take advantage of you
    3) Can't hurt in making a new friend :grin:
    4) Your a group, if something goes wrong you've got your friends to back you up
    5) Ice skating is fun!
     
  4. Time

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    ^ I agree with him. Being with a large group of people out in the open is the ideal setting for meeting people from the internet. Very smart of you :slight_smile:
     
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    Hey,

    Thats for sure smart ^^^ public, open, but its not like you're going to invite you're internet friend home straight away because thats kinda dumb... anyway i really think you should go for it... Never pass up a chance for love

    Catch
     
  6. divinity1618

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    Yeah go for it just remember to not let things move to quickly! Love is in the air
     
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    I don't see any harm in meeting him since there will be a lot of other people around.
     
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    I say, yeah, go for it. You are in the saftey of your group and you already know that this guy makes you laugh. :thumbsup:
     
  9. Ty

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    Go for it =]
     
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    Of course!

    Meeting people is awesome fun. :grin:
     
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    I'll join the crowd that says GO!.It's not like anything rash on Friday.A chance to meet a new friend.Although a pang of jealousy will hit my heart on Friday night.:icon_sad: :grin:
     
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    Biisme!!!!! We were an awesome couple always, waking up next to each other! Can I come???? lol, jk....Go for it! What town is this? Providence?
     
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    i agree.
    as long as you are with friends.
     
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    *scoffs* why not. i mean ur going to keep some huge slumber party or somehting like that right? so no need to worries. meet him with uir friends. as long as ur partner can get along with ur friends then he is worthy of being with u.
     
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    haha....we should meet up sometime
     
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    Of course, use caution... But if you are with friends, you should be alright! Don't do anything you will regret later... Tell us how it goes
     
  17. Bader

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    u should totally go ,tell us how it goes !