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Want to ask her out but not sure what to do or if I should?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by aashton, Dec 7, 2012.

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  1. aashton

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    I'm a 19 (almost 20 year old) junior in college and she is a freshman who recently turned 19.

    We've been playing Words with Friends together for a few months and have played scrabble twice in the past month or so. I have texted her a few times, and she has texted back, but never initiated contact. I really like her and would like to ask her out, but am not sure that she'd even be interested.

    Also, if I were to ask her out, I have no idea what I'd ask her to do... I honestly haven't dated much. Any suggestions?
     
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    First and foremost welcome to Empty Closets!

    Do you know if she is interested in women? Does she text you or do you always text her? I would spend more personal time with her. Go to a movie or have dinner with her(kinda like a date) and see how it goes. Also, just remember a date is really just a hang out session really not much more.

    ~Josie
     
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  3. aashton

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    Thanks, haha.

    I do know that she is interested in women, and I've only really texted her twice. Once to start a conversation, which lasted a while, and the second time to wish her a happy birthday. I have the feeling that I'm going to have to be the one to initiate, though, if I want something to happen.
     
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    Keep in mind not to rush it, just "hangout" for a few times than ask her out, if you see if she looks somewhat interested.

    ~Josie
     
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    Regardless, I'd have to ask her to hangout since I will never run into her or see her without having some reason to.
     
    #5 aashton, Dec 7, 2012
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