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I dream about having a girlfriend now, almost every single night

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by tapsilog2012, Dec 7, 2012.

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  1. tapsilog2012

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    Ive started having dreams about having a girlfriend now. Most of my lesbian dreams used to just be about sex. But now I have dreams about having a girlfriend, just doing ordinary stuff with her. Just thought I'd share :slight_smile:

    It also makes me remember a strange dream I had when I was 18 or 19 about a really beautiful woman. In the dream "God's voice" said "this is the person for you". At the time I thought I was straight, and when I woke up I was extremely confused.
     
    #1 tapsilog2012, Dec 7, 2012
  2. glittergirl8178

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    Very interesting. I have and have had a lot of dreams like that, especially before I really admitted to myself that I am truly bisexual, maybe even lesbian, since my dreams--and my real life--are dominated by thoughts of being with women and not with men.

    Happy dreaming!
     
    #2 glittergirl8178, Dec 7, 2012
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    not long ago i dreamed that i was getting married to a woman. in my dream i couldn't remember her name or her face but i was very happy. dreams are really great :slight_smile:
     
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    I wish after years of Catholic school God and I would be friendly enough that he would show me the person for me :slight_smile: Unfortunately my dreams aren't that deep!
     
    #4 canuck, Dec 8, 2012
  5. tapsilog2012

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    Haha yeah, I have those kind of dreams once in a while. I had a hard childhood and occasionally would get these absolutely crystal clear images in dreams that basically would give me hope and guide my life.

    The one with the beautiful woman, I still remember her face. The strange thing is, she was in a wheelchair.

    I think its partly because Im a really visual person. All my thoughts are in visual or "movement" form (basically swirls of energy for lack of a better word) and then need to be translated into a language. Because of this I pick up foreign languages quickly, because the base of my thoughts is not words, its pictures and "forms".
     
    #5 tapsilog2012, Dec 8, 2012
  6. starmarie

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    I've been having dreams about being in love with/being with women for over a year now. I ignored them and hated having them because I doubted that I liked women like that. But they sort of encouraged my questioning and now I'm enjoying them much more. :slight_smile:
     
    #6 starmarie, Dec 8, 2012
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    I'm not a very sexual person, so I normally only have cute daydreams about being with a girl.
    Running up and hugging her from behind,
    or her burying her face into my jacket on the train.
    It sounds stupid, but it's what I think about. :slight_smile:
     
    #7 prism, Dec 8, 2012
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    that doesn't sound stupid at all, it sounds lovely!
     
    #8 ameliawesome, Dec 8, 2012
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    You guys are lucky. I hardly ever dream. And when I do, it never ends up being a sex dream. It's always about war or something.
     
    #9 SheWhoHasNoName, Dec 8, 2012
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    my dreams have never had gender actually, not since I was 11 :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
    #10 NikkiPardus, Dec 8, 2012
  11. tapsilog2012

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    Wow @NikkiPardus, that's so cool....Ive had dreams about androgynous (genderless) people a few times...there was a beautiful Asian man/woman in a few of them.

    But thats crazy that they almost never have gender. Goes to show you how much dreams can tell you about your brain and subconscious.
     
    #11 tapsilog2012, Dec 9, 2012
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    I have only had sex dreams that are heterosexual...as men a man and a beautiful woman getting it on the simple way.
    i have never dreamed of a wedding when asleep.
    i did try to imagine my wedding day several times and had difficulty with it. never could imagine the man, and not a honeymoon, and it seemed akward.
    I just liked the beautiful bridesmaids in shiny silk 1950s dresses.
    if life would let me choose i would be a real man, born that way, inside and out.id prefer to marry a lady and i can imagine a honey moon then! idk if i could see myself marrying a man if i was a man, but i can't see myself as a woman marrying a woman...yet that is what everybody would see if i did marry a girl.
     
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    Hey! I keep having dreams like that too!! It's crazy and makes it really difficult for me to sleep...
     
    #13 runner, Dec 9, 2012
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