Hello, my name is anon so I can keep my name secret. Ill get right on with the story, but before I do, Please I beg of you take me seriously. I've asked this on yahoo and they laughed at me. So I will begin... I'm 14 and coming 15. All my life I liked women. And could get a erection over a girl doing anything sexy. About last year, Was the first time I doubted myself being straight. I was on ************ and saw a person masturbating and got an erection. I thought "Ok whatever" and shrugged it off. I decided to watch gay porn thinking that if I liked a person masturbating, then I may be homosexual. I watched it and did not get an erection. So I left it everything was back to the way it was. Recently this year ( round about septemeber) I have yet again doubted myself. This time it was different. Truth is, not even I remember how this started. I'll cut to the chase, I watched a gay porn and yet again did not get an erection. Oddly enough though I felt a tingling feeling in my penis. And then I felt a shiver. I'm not sure if it's me getting an erection so I decided to watch lesbian. And did get an erection. It plays on my mind for two reasons. 1. It has never happened before 2. I'm not sure if this is a sign of becoming a homosexual. So what I'm asking is this. Are these signs of becoming a homosexual. P.s I've noticed the way I used to get an erection over a girl doing anything sexy has kind of slowed and now it happens less. I also get that tingly feeling when I'm around any male now. But never seem to get a full blown erection. I've tried lying there and letting my mind clear of anything but the porn too see if I was holding it back but nope, nothing.
Truthfully, of course nobody takes anything seriously when you ask on Yahoo Answers. At least, I've never in my life taken anything seriously there . Regardless, welcome to EC. Like 341 said, perhaps you're just bisexual. Maybe you're gay but in denial. Maybe you're actually straight. There's no real way to know and you'll never get an "answer". What I'd suggest is just run with whatever you're feeling. When you're out and about, try and pay attention to who's catching your eye - guys or girls? If you find yourself attracted to a guy - great. If you find yourself attracted to a girl - great. Just let things run their course. And honestly, as a presumably horny, hormornal teenager (like nearly all teenagers), watching porn isn't really much of an indication of anything. You're also going through puberty right now, so your sexual attractions might change. If you can manage to do so, I'd say to not worry about it too much.
it sounds like your more straight but could be a bit bi.i dont think you are gonna turn gay.i wouldn't stress at all you are at a age where you are still discovering what your into. its normal to be unsure at your age.
I congratulate you on being willing to test yourself and listen to your feelings instead of repressing and silencing a potential source of anxiety. If in the end you turn out to actually be gay, at least you won't begin this path by angrily rejecting yourself. That's good. My attraction is more romantic than erotic, so the way I figured out that I was bisexual was trying to imagine whom I would want to spend my life with. I viewed myself as an old man, in a peaceful house in the forest, making breakfast, and tried to imagine whom I'd want to make that breakfast for. I can easily put a man or a woman in that picture. I can easily dream of getting old together with a man or a woman. Ergo, I am bisexual. You may want to do the same exercise. Try to envision the life of your dreams, the love story you've always wanted to live. Whom do you see next to you? That may give you a clue toward identifying your deep desires.
