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I wish I was cute

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  1. DRN94

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    I'm ugly and will never attract a guy ever.
     
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    Join the club. You are not alone, along with like 50% of the human population, myself included.
     
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    Two cute guys started working where I work and sit near me. All of this happened today and I can't stand it. They're younger than me and are attractive and cute. And I have to sit there and work knowing my life will never be as good as theirs are. They probably look at me and laugh to themselves. I know I would if I were them.
     
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    Just because you think you're ugly doesn't mean that's the way everyone else sees you.

    We all feel that way sometimes. You are far from alone. I'm sure everyone here will agree with me.
     
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    Everyone is thought of as beautiful by someone.
     
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    Whats the point if I'll never meet that someone and I don't see anything beautiful about my flat acne big nose bad eyes face.
     
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    How old are you?
     
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    18. And I'm already ugly. I don't even want to think about what I'll look like when I'm older. Ughh.
     
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    aren't we all...*chuckles bitterly*
     
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    Not my mocking co-workers. I can barely watch movies or anything with cute/attractive guys in it. I get so angry and jealous and uncomfortable. And now I have to look at my co-workers every time I'm at work.
     
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    .... guys, stop being so hard on yourself.

    you think people are cute because you're attracted to OTHER people and not yourself, lol.

    unless you're narcissist or something
     
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    Take a seat, baby we're all beautiful in our own ways there's always someone out there for you, and if the people you meet are so shallow to not even give you a chance because of your looks then they weren't right for you anyways. (*hug*) :kiss:
     
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    I don't care what people think. I want to be cute and attractive for MYSELF. I hate looking in the mirror, having to consciously adjust for my bad teeth and facial structure. I'm tired of being alone. I'm sick of being ugly. Looks are so much more important than people trick themselves into thinking. That fact is there's nothing physically appealing about me.
     
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    hold on, what kind of "cute" are you comparing yourself too?
     
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    I wish I knew you so I could give you a big ol' bear hug and talk these things out with you. :slight_smile:
     
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    Clean shaven, boyish facial featured, cute, innocent yet naughty, sexy lean, toned boy. And I'll never be one. Ever. No matter how hard I try, no matter how hard I wish. But hey! I get to look at them until I die alone. That's something to live for right? Not.
     
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    Clean shaven, boyish facial featured, cute, innocent yet naughty, sexy lean, toned boy. .......
    Now I'm mostly attracted by emotion and personality, but if I was designing a perfect guy that stuff sounds unattractive to me =P....Everyone is different and everyone has their own taste...there are a lot of people, myself included that prefer people who don't look like that...
     
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    You just described me, and I hate how I look(sometimes, EC made it better <3 love you guys), it's not all it's cracked up to be baby! (*hug*)
     
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    yo know that another way to go around is to woo one, right? and why give up already? you're not putting up the fight lol. love is a battlefield...
     
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    I can be attracted to any type. It more depends on personality, sense of humor, smarts. Granted I have physical characteristics I like. And I have body issues too, but I believe we are all beautiful in our own way. I'm sure you're not ugly and neither am I. Just because you don't fit some sexy lean image doesn't make you ugly.
     
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