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what is this feeling called?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by woundsneverheal, Dec 9, 2012.

  1. me and my online ex girlfriend were talking right and she asked me

    "what turns you on?" and i told her what turns me on and she said this

    "i could picture it. tenderly rubbing your shoulders, your body, gently pressing my lips against your neck"

    and when i read that message , i can't describe the feeling....it was like this electricity went into stomach and just exploded and when i went to bed , i was picturing it ....and the same feeling happened , whenever i thought of it.
     
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    shouldn't have eaten that electric eel pizza last night girl.
     
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    I see the sparks of Eros' flame has been rekindled! Mount the Arrow!!!!

    1,2,3...

    FIRE!
     
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    Ha...DeafNotBlind, you're hilarious. I will have to steal that one. :slight_smile:

    To the OP...That feeling would be lust. Physical passion, if you prefer. Welcome to the glorious world of getting to know yourself better. :slight_smile: Hang in there. it's not a bad thing.
     
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    ^ Awesome! I pictured this!
     
  6. haha yeah. i just didn't know what it was. you would think i would know but i don't.
    i'm questioning basically ..and it seems i've forgotten what lust feels like

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    thanks
     
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    Adrenaline jolt?
     
  8. i can't describe it. it's felt electricity almost , butterflies? i don't know
     
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    man that was kinda steamy...made me feel a jolt too. Get it gurl!! :grin:
     
  10. BoiGeorge

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    I had the exact same feeling with my ex online girlfriend! Exactly as you described - like electricity! But I referred to mine as lightning up my spine!! :grin:
     
  11. hahaha. yeah , i couldn't describe it... that's the only way , i could really explain it

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    haha thanks. i will (!)
     
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    Colpo di fulmine. The thunderbolt, as Italians call it. When love strikes someone like lightning, so powerful and intense it can’t be denied. It’s beautiful and messy, cracking a chest open and spilling their soul out for the world to see. It turns a person inside out, and there’s no going back from it. Once the thunderbolt hits, your life is irrevocably changed.”

    - J.M. Darhower, Sempre
     

  13. ummm? it this sexual arousal or what?
     
  14. rday13

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    Coup de foudre, as the French call it.
    Same meaning, new language :grin:
     
  15. i just want to know what feeling i was having
     
  16. BoiGeorge

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    I usually only got it when I was talking dirty to her, so yeah, I would call it lust and infatuation. Amazing feeling! :grin:
     
  17. she talks dirty to me. she's a tease.
     
  18. BoiGeorge

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    I reckon this feeling is a form of arousal. But I dont know for sure.
     
  19. i don't know , all i know is when she said that....i felt an electric sensation from my chest to stomach and every time ...i pictured her massaging and kissing my neck....i still felt it. still kind of do