Hey guys, staying at my boyfriends at the weekend while his parents are away and well can you guess what we plan on doing? We've fooled around before but the most we did was oral because we didn't just wanna fuck for the sake of it, want it to be something a little more special We're both virgins so it's not as if he's experienced and I'm completely clueless or anything. But I'm pretty nervous with no idea what I'm doing...so to all the more sexually experienced peeps on here, what advice do you have..like any advice (I'm on bottom by the way - if that helps!)
Go slow. Use a condom and lots of lube. As bottom you may not cum from intercourse alone, though I usually have. Just do what you are comfortable with and get to know what he likes as well. Don't be shy
I agree with everything Dhamma Gamer has said. One thing I'd like to add is, although its difficult, it is best to avoid having any real expectations for the first time. Just kind of go with the flow and see where you lead each other. Try multiple positions to see what feel best. Communication is key all the time but especially in the beginning. Let him know what is and what isn't comfortable for you and the same for him. I'm sure there are more things I could say but honestly the last thing I can really think of is: try not to think too hard and have fun. Even though it may be painful in the beginning, at least for me, the first time with a guy was absolutely amazing! Good luck! and to echo Dhamma Gamer, use LOTS of lube!
Talk about it! That`s my tip, lol. And don`t be afraid of taking it slow, rushing ruins the experience. Try to figure out what you are worried about, ask him if he is worried about something, make it to the point where you are comfortable with talking about sex and issues. I can`t give advice on gay sex, as I am a lesbian, lol, but don`t try to be porn stars! That`s usually the first mistake, lol. Sex is great, but it`s better when you understand your partner. Don`t be afraid of asking while you`re at it, like "Does this feel good?" And don`t be afraid of letting him know, if you need him to go slower, harder, more careful, etc. Communication makes the first time easier regardless of whether it`s two men, or two women. Or that icky straight way :badgrin: (that last part was a joke)
