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3 day rule

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by SomeNights, Dec 11, 2012.

  1. SomeNights

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    So I know in straight dating the whole 3 day rule of calling someone, but what about gay dating? Do the rules change? I know Lame post....:icon_redf
     
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    I'd say there's no difference in straight or gay dating. However, I've always found rules of that sort of stupid. If I want to call someone, I call them. If they want to call me, I expect them to do the same. Rules like that make everything so difficult for both parties. Just call if you want to call! :slight_smile:
     
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    If you make me wait more then three days for a call I would probably say no to you when you called...
     
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    I don't really follow any "rules," it makes things too complicated, and life is too short to be playing games like that. If i want to call/text someone, I just do.
     
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    Thanks everyone, just something I've been wondering about. And @jaysuss are those skittles or m&m's?
     
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    They are peanut MandM's. The best kind of course!
     
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    Sorry. I had to. It's Barney from How I Met Your Mother :slight_smile:
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  8. SomeNights

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    Agreed!!
     
  9. Agreed.
     
  10. i dont even know what the 3 day rule is! :s haha
     
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    me too, i've never heard of that. Anyway, I'm not very reliable when it comes to answering the phone :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    I think the 3 day rule isn't anymore.

    When I first started dating my current lover, I did wait 3 days. Later I was told that I shouldn't have done that, it was kinda rude.

    So maybe don't be a stalker about.... but if things are good, don't wait too long to say so, you might not get a 2nd chance!
     
  13. rday13

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    Agreed. Life is too short for such games.
    If you're interested, don't wait to tell them...or you'll lose that window of opportunity.