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First Move

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by SomeNights, Dec 11, 2012.

  1. SomeNights

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    So i tried searching for this, but I think I'm doing it wrong, because I got no results.

    I'm having trouble with making the "First Move". Sometimes when I'm with someone everything says "GO ALREADY", but I can never think of what to do.

    Anyone know any subtle first moves?
     
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    bump...really 60 views and no one knows? Glad I'm not alone. :slight_smile:
     
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    I'm pretty clueless as well because usually I just go with the flow. I think it depends on where you are, so your environment/surroundings. And if you're standing up next to the person or sitting down. Try slowly easing your way closer to the person you're interested in. Lightly brush against them to let them know you're about to make a move. Try caressing their hand, arm or and neck; when I was dating this girl, she kept touching my arm. She became more attentive towards me and it was then when I knew it was safe to make a move.

    But I think it really depends on the person and their level of confidence. And also, if you're okay with PDA.
     
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    Thanks Pinklov Exactly what I was looking for.....i'll have to try that.
     
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    if at a bar have a few drinks and lean in for the kiss, if its at a home setting say watching a movie lay on their lap and begin to rub their body
     
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    Now that I've read the previous posts I feel so stupid lol. I was totally blind to all of these signals. At least I know now lol
     
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    really? can you get away with being that forward?
     
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    You can with a couple drinks :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:. The things I have done with my best friend with the help of alchol haha.