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Want to come out!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Salazar, Dec 14, 2012.

  1. Salazar

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    Alright. I planned to come out to my friend this weekend, but I hardly ever see her, because, though she lives near me, she goes to a different school. I wanted to text her in the morning and ask her to meet me somewhere where I could then tell her. The problem is I have no clue as to what to say in the text, and then what to say when I see her. I definitely need some help, and I'd be grateful to anyone who could give me some!
     
  2. SomeNights

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    I wouldn't make a special visit out of it. Just text her like normal "hey, you wanna hang out?"
     
  3. dudedette

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    agree with the dude above^^
    When you meet her just give a casual "you probably already know, but I'm gay"
    fast and easy, and because you said "you probably already know" she won't question you, or at least not as much.
     
  4. Deaf Not Blind

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    also agreed.

    what u usually text her in mornings to say? do u text her much? is it in mornings? don't go odd pattern, do same as usual.

    Hey!
    Heyy!!:slight_smile:
    whazzuupp?? :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
    Not much, just got out of math. why?
    saw Hobbitt is playing, wanna come tonight?
    sure! time?
    6, we can go early to eat at McD.
    HATE! HATE! their food, u know that! ugh!
    Soory, yup. ok, we sneek in popcorn! :grin:
    hehehe! high 5!
    ok, see you my place 5.
    k
    ttyl
    bye!

    just however you all chat...go with it.
    then when you all are hanging out together, just work it in...
     
  5. The example conversation is so cute.