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Am I gay?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by tegansheild, Dec 20, 2012.

  1. tegansheild

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    Hi I dont have alot of time... but anyways. Im not sure whether im gay or not. I find myself looking at womens breasts and butts. but i tried making out with a girl and it didnt really feel good at all. she broke up with me because there was no sexual connection. altough there was an emotional connection and i did love her.my friend(guy friends) make me get a boner sometimes. Many people have hinted that im gay or straight out called me out. I would ussually change the subject or just laugh. Id feel like im lying if i said i am straight. I havent made out with A guy so im not sure that im gay. Any body have any ideas? maybe have suggestions for a place i can meet guys. Oh also i masterbate to straight porn and gay porn. Another question... do gay guys sometimes like women sexually? I like the way women look but i feel like i couldnt have sex with them. I havent had sex yet but i got orall sex from a girl and i had to think about one of my guy friends in order to finish. i really want to know how to figure this out. i feel like im holding my breath. and i need to get this weight lifted of.I get very nervous around girls to. anyways any kind of help would be appreciated. Thank You!:icon_bigg
     
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    More important than any of the above may be why you came here - a website offering support to lgbt people - in the first place. Regardless of what other people say about you, what kinds of people do *you* feel attracted to?
     
  3. J Snow

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    Sexuality is far more complicated than just being gay or straight. Its a whole spectrum, and in my opinion even the Kinsey scale grossly over simplistic. It sounds like you have at least some sort of attraction to men, so I would say that you are like queer to some extent.