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[Embarrassing and Kind of Explicit] My First...Encounter

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by standtall00, Dec 23, 2012.

  1. standtall00

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    Well last Sunday I was at the mall with my boyfriend and we saw a movie. We held hands, cuddled, and joked around before the movie started. Well...during the movie I touched his leg, and he didn't do anything, and I thought to myself: Maybe I can go further? So, I did..I put my hand on his crotch. After that, he took my hand and guided it to...you know where. And I started rubbing it. That was my first time ever and it was wonderful. After the movie we went to the book store and he went to the rest room. I followed him in, just to wait on him. When he was done, he started to tease me through the crack of the stall. I think he wanted a blow job, and I was very open minded to giving him one. It didn't happen though.

    Well, my point is that I'm going to see him again this Saturday for another movie...and I think I might be doing what I did last time and I want to go further...but I honestly don't know how :/ I know this is weird to ask, but I need advice on how to go further with it.
     
  2. 4AllEternity

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    Well, I don't think you really need our help in that department, you both seemed to let your instincts guide you. I will caution you this: make sure you really have feelings for this person that aren't driven by lust. It's easy to get caught up in a relationship at your age based upon the desire to explore your urges, so be careful. Also, don't let yourself be forced into anything you're uncomfortable with.
     
  3. ptacub

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    Well, first you have to determine if you're ready for a sexual encounter. While I understand you're 15 and it's only natural you want to have sexual intercourse, you may or may not be emotionally ready. I'm 18 and I only lost my virginity recently.

    Secondly,if you plan to have sex in a public place, please be absolutely careful. I honestly would not recommend it, because my first encounter was in a bathroom stall and in a way I kinda regret it.

    But otherwise, with regards to getting your bf excited, you're doing just fine. :wink: Like I said, just be sure and careful.