recently things have been odd and things for me the fact is she still talks to her ex bf, still talks about men okay your straight but respect me she tells me she loves me, she misses me.. i stay with her we sleep together i feel myself hurting though she says shes not going anywhere and no one must find out about us.. its a 14 yr age difference i'm younger shes older she picked me up in front of my mothers house last night.. strange if she wants us hidden and people know we arent friends. we live in a small town she sent me a text stating "i think alot of people are afraid of being happy because of what others might think" what is she trying to say? do yall think she wants to end this fling?