you can never really recover from it because even if you keep yourself busy youll think bout that person like me i've already moved from my ex but i can still remember bits and pieces it makes me smile.... i guess u just have to surpass on the lack of emptiness u feel inside
Try to stay busy. Hang out with friends and talk about other things. If you don't have any plans, find a good book or watch a movie. You can still think about the person while doing these things, but it becomes much harder to.
Yeah right after my ex girlfriend and I broke up everything reminded me of her. I couldn't listen to any music at all because nearly every song I listened to reminded me of her. It does get better though!
yeah when i let go of my ex for awhile , it tore me apart...just even look at the wall , killed me ...i couldn't watch movies , i couldn't talk to my friends because they brought up topics that reminded me of her...it was complete hell , i just couldn't take it anymore...it was driving me into deep depression but i'll try to let her go again when i feel strong enough too
I know how you feel woundsneverheal. There's actually a really good song that I love to listen to by K. Michelle called "Bury My Heart." I love listening to music whenever I'm feeling down about missing someone. I was missing my ex for months, but now, she and I are speaking again after months of not talking to each other. The song that helped me the most whenever I thought about her is Mariah Carey's, "I Still Believe", it's such a beautiful song. I also like to read a lot, which helps time past by. I'm currently reading Fifty Shades of Grey
50 shades of grey? hahaha , i loved that book but i din't get to read the 3rd one and well scarlett (my ex) spoiled it for me , i wasn't going to read it anyways...i'm too lazy haha yeah i'm putting these songs on my ipod , i speak through music , i'll give someone a song on how i really feel. the song i'm listening to now is jose - daniela andrade. she is amazing. my name is meris by the way
It depends if this "someone" is someone you can actually be with, or someone you've split with. If you're just temporarily away from them, do things you enjoy, and also think of the great times you've had together. If your relationship with this person is over, well, do things you enjoy, but don't obsess over them. Don't try and stop loving them; love is something good, something to cherish. Instead, accept that you can't be with them, and do your best to move on. Allow your feelings for them to gradually change in whatever way works for you, just focus on looking positively to the future. Try to learn something new, spend time with friends, meet new people.
