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anyone had any erm.. gay 'experiences' or 'experiments'?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by iamveryconfused, Dec 29, 2012.

  1. iamveryconfused

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    Hey not sure if this is the correct area to post this but I suppose its advice? Just curious as to what its like
     
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    Truly mind-blowing and amazing. And I never even went all the way, whatever that's currently defined as.
     
  3. iamveryconfused

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    Wow, how far did you go?
     
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    I never really experiment until I started dating and so far I've only gone as far as oral, but it was amazing :slight_smile:
     
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    I wish... :/
     
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    I've experimented before puberty. And a little bit around 19-20. I basically went all the way with a guy by the time I was 12 and I wasn't left wanting more lol. Not until recently. I guess you can call it curiosity.

    By 13 I was hooking up with girls. This was around when puberty hit for me. Did everything with a girl since then. I've had some near queer experiences around 19-20. All on my own. More of like a "test" to see what I'd like and what I wouldn't.
     
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    I wish I had some... -_-
     
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    Absolutely. It started with experimentation with straight female friends when in high school, but have also dated and slept with several women since I came out a year and a half ago.
     
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    Nope. Want to very badly though.
     
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    I kissed a boy in third grade. We pretty much went all the way from there. It was divine.
     
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    a girl showed me how to fake sex when she was about 4 and i was 5. we did it a lot. only underpants on, in bed, one of us on top, sit on the other and jump hard and moan. it was fun! so then every good friends i had i taught to play sex, i was always on top, and it was girls and boys. sometimes i would do one then next friend who waited. so when i saw porn that guys frott and girls scissor, and you can do it with underwear on and it counts too, i was omg i had sex for reals when i was 5!
     
  12. Owen

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    I have, and it was simply fantastic.

    BUT, my caveat to that is that the reason my experience was so great was because I was with a guy who respected me and wanted me to enjoy the experience just as much as he wanted to enjoy it himself. Plus we already had a strong emotional connection before we started messing around, and I doubt it would have been as good if that weren't the case.

    So, these experiences can be great, and they should be, but they won't always be, so don't get too down if yours aren't at first.
     
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    My best friend at the time (this summer) got very drunk and made out with me. Yup, that's as exciting as it gets for me.
     
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    My first time "experimenting" was when I was in my college dorm. My roommate claimed his bed was broken (Not so much) and asked if he could sleep in my bed with me. I said I didn't mind. Fell asleep, I woke up in the middle of the night and found him staring at me, we eventually kissed, and well stuff happened after that haha. We did that for a while afterward. It just seemed right and we both were in the closet. I feel fortunate to have had an easy first experience.
     
  15. Zaio

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    Can't say I've ever had anything like this, and I have been with about 13 guys. In my person experience it's been alright, bit of fun, I'd do it again. Nothing special but then again I didn't really share anything special with the people, was more of a casual hookup.

    All the best.
     
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    Well I've had some experience with one guy, and it was great. But like Owen said, the experience wouldn't have been half as great if it weren't for the connection we shared, the feelings I had for him, and how long I had been longing for it to happen.