Okay I don't really want to comeout to everyone just yet but id still like to meet someone to cuddle with and kiss and all so please advise away.
Hi, I don't think there is a single good answer for that. What you may do without hesitation may be impossible for me. For example I have never been in a gay bar. I don't dance, too much smoke (in my era), music too loud to talk, I never wanted a one a night stand, so bars do not work for me. Every gay friend I ever had was a friend first and the "gay" came out later. I believe "gaydar" exists and is a biological process; === Human cryptochrome exhibits light-dependent magnetosensitivity http://www.nature.com/ncomms/journal/v2/n6/abs/ncomms1364.html === This was only recently discovered. Thoughts have a magnetic profile. Trust your gaydar. Stuck
What's preventing you from coming out? Is it something that you can work towards? It's not that closet relationships don't happen, but think of it this way: it's really hard for a guy to want to be into you if he doesn't know you're 'on the market'. And I think looking for someone while closeted - being inevitably harder - will just dampen your spirits.
Umm my dads preventing me if I tell him he'll most likely kill me.... and he can he's ex- military. So I'm stuck feeling dead and hoping for someone to save me from my hellish life while trying to do anything I can to earn money to move out.