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It must be so nice to be either a 0 or 6 on the Kinsey.

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by isobella, Jan 4, 2013.

  1. isobella

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    No confusion, no stress.. How wonderful would that be.

    I just wish I could find myself to go one way, and one way only.. and just be content with that.

    That's all.
     
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    I can imagine how you feel... but I think you could get twice a chance for a date ya? :lol:

    Still very confusing though! :confused:
     
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    It's the "grass is always greener" syndrome. When they are coming out, gay people often think it would be easier of better to be bi, and bi people think it would be easier or nicer or better to be either gay or straight--anything but bi.

    In reality, neither is worse than the other, they are just difficult in different ways.
     
  4. The Escapist

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    I for one am very happy to be a 3 and X and every other random oddity that I am.
     
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    Yes... I'd love that. It would make things SO much easier...
     
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    Hogwash. The only reason that being multisexual can possibly be negative is what gay and lesbian folks have to say.
     
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    I think this world would function a lot more efficiently if people stopped throwing themselves little pitty-parties like this thread and accepted the cards they were dealt.

    Everyone has problems and sitting around thinking "Ohhh gee everyone has it so much easier than I do, my life is just SO HARD." isn't going to earn you any supporters.
     
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    I completely agree.

    I used to wish I was bisexual, so there would be a chance at having a "normal" life. It's not easy being different, period.
     
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    I am a six. I have no desire to be with a woman. I still find a woman attractive, and I find that confusing. Being at one of the ends is equally confusing to being in the middle.
     
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    I agree, although I do admit that I am sick of labels & numbers on a scale. I know it says I'm homoflexible and that's because there's that little bit of false hope inside of me that awaits the right guy. Looks like I'll be waiting forever :eusa_doh:

    I'm pretty content with liking women now, even though it took me forever to feel this way :eusa_danc
     
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