Without getting into the whole mess of my particular identity, I'll just say I'm MtF transgender. Yet, before very recently, I've had two issues with calling myself that. First off, the more trivial matter, is that I've never felt a particular attraction to wearing female clothing, and that in part led to the more important second issue: I never felt committed to being truly transgender, which is sort of a stupid thing to struggle with, since I know that I am a woman in spirit, if not in body, yet I still felt at times that I would 'snap out of it' or that because every second of every day I was not thinking about it, that somehow it made me a illegitimate transgender. So my question is, really I guess aimed at transgenders but any input would be useful input, that are these common feelings, and if anyone else had them, how do you deal with them?
I stumbled upon a very cool video that might enlighten your mood about your sexual identity: Human Sexuality is Complicated... - YouTube