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I have a serious issue..and its not Homosexuality

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by localfwbguy, Jan 7, 2013.

  1. localfwbguy

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    Long story short, I have a sexual attraction to people who are 35+ years older than me. There is very little information online about this issue. I have suffered from it for years, I am 23 now. It is not about love or romance, just a sexual issue. I am 23 and male, the attractions are towards males. There is no love potential, I don't know what to do. I am in love with someone my age, but I am losing it due to this condition. I have met with a psychologist once, but I've yet to divulge this issue yet.
     
  2. Jameson

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    Is this person you love a woman, or a man? If they are a woman, then you might be a heteroromantic homosexual. I think that's what it is; where you like/love women but are sexually pleased by men, and nothing more w/ men.
     
  3. Argentwing

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    Hmm. An attraction to old people traits is gerontophilia, but that's about as much as I know. There seems to be a fair amount of it on here. I can imagine why people would think it's weird, but to your older partners (who I'm certain would love a young guy) it should work just fine. :slight_smile: