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Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by DMack, Jan 9, 2013.

  1. DMack

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    Not sure how to start this off....I am currently 21 and single. All of my relationships have been with girls but I honestly have been attracted to guys for a few years now. I find myself wanting to meet up with them but never really have the courage to do so. Not sure what I'm feeling here. Not intentionally trying to bring up porn here but I've realized I do watch some gay porn whenever I do decide to look at it online. Confusing....
     
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    welcome to ec man..
    if your looking at gay porn i dont think your straight (bi maybe ?) but that depends on your attraction to girls.hope you dont mind fulling us in on what is your history with girls.how do you think you would feel being gay or bi?sorry to be hiting you with questions but would help people help you.
     
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    Don't mind the questions one bit. I've had quite a few girlfriends. Three long term relationships. Attraction to guys has been there for a couple years though. I honestly don't know how I feel about possibly being bi.
     
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    who do you think your more attracted 2?im not great on how the bi thing works but it seems from what Ive read here on ec it comes in waves for many people.and works on a scale of attraction.so basically sexuality can be very fluid.i dont think i can be much help to you.i am sure some good people here can help you out tho.
     
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    I really can't answer that question. I see a good looking girl I know it and when I see a good looking guy I know it lol. Thanks for your replies man!