Insanely in love with another guy-help!

Well, it sucks, but the only way to get things started is to talk to him. Do you ever see him outside of class around school? The only thing you currently have in common is that class, so if you ever see him, you could go up and say "Hey aren't you in my ICT class?" You could talk about that briefly and then move onto more interesting stuff and try to get to know him a bit if he seems open to it. You can also go up to him during the class, but I can't think of a way to randomly approach him for no reason without it seeming odd or like you are blatantly interested in him, lol. Unless you need to do a partner or group activity at some point.. Maybe others will have better ideas.

 

Nemos, Someone has to instigate the conversation. Trust me, glaring and staring eventually gets boring and will loose interest eventually. Why not sit next to him in ICT class? Or ask him about some work. I'm sure he wouldn't mind and a straight guy can hardly make any accusations about you asking him some simple questions. If he is interested in you, He would be more than happy to speak to you. Just make the move!

 

Invent a reason or wait for one (preferably invent one, or you might end up waiting forever) to talk to him during class. I do not suggest flirting or poking about his sexuality at first, instead just get to know him. You'll probably get some signs if he's gay, if you get none, bring up the topic of LGBT somehow and see how he reacts. Most homosexual/bisexual people will be interested in a conversation about the topic, even if they are closeted. He may even straight up mention his sexuality.

I caution you against getting too excited at this point. I know it feels like you love him, but you can't. You don't even know his name, let alone what he's like underneath the superficial side strangers see. I'm not saying that he could be completely repulsive if you got to know him, in fact, chances are, if you like him right now, you'll probably still like him if you get to know what he's like. Just realize that what you're feeling right now is just attraction, you don't even know if he can reciprocate it, let alone whether he's right for you. Try to avoid obsessing over him, for two reasons, the first being that if you invest all of yourself in this working out, and it's doesn't, you'll crash hard. Secondly, needy people who seem desperate for a relationship (i.e they're falling over themselves to start one with you) tend to kill interest pretty quickly. Even if you're just being really nice, not demanding, you can produce the same effect. You have to behave like you have some confidence in yourself, like you're something that needs some work to win over.

Start by talking with him when you see him in class, then after you've established whether you share interests, suggest that you hang out together some time. Don't make it like a date unless A) You know (not think) he's gay/bi. B) That he's the type to enjoy a direct approach. A lot of gay/bi people tend to be a little more cautious about starting relationships if they're still closeted/just out of the closet. Unless he's making advances, flirting with you, I'd reccomend just keeping things casual at first. Once you start getting signals back from him, then you start thinking about dating.