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Could she be bi?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by lexi, Jan 10, 2013.

  1. lexi

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    Okay, so i think one of my best friends might be bi... but it could be wishful thinking. She doesn't know i'm bi, but i've been curious about it for a while now. some of the things she says...

    *my friends we're talking about being horny (lol) and she said basically everything turns her on. so my friends we're joking around saying stuff like "even ______?" and someone said "What about boobs?" then she just stopped for minute, then said "I'm not going to answer that."

    *At a tennis meet we saw a girl we knew (long story) so a grabbed her wrist and said "lets go say hi!" then she made a comment about me making her feel awkward "in a lesbian way" (what the h*ll did she mean?) i never asked her about it, but i should have.

    *At a sleepover with me, her, and another friend, I brought up kissing girls, and said i wondered if it was different from kissing guys. After we discussed it she ended up saying "the world would just be a better place if everyone was bi" (she didn't mean offence to anyone, she just meant you could be attracted to anyone and have a chance with them)

    *She lets me sit on her lap, and we make jokes about doing stuff together

    *She liked an LGBT page on facebook and shares their posts sometimes


    Am i looking to far into this? is it just coincidence? i have lesbianish jokes with some other friends too, and maybe im just looking too much into it. I could just see it though, with her personality.

    I really want her to be bi, im not sure why though. Maybe because i'd feel less alone, maybe because i'd be cool to have a friend i could relate to, maybe because i find her attractive,maybe i because then i could tell her that i was bi and finally get it off my chest...i really dont know.

    do you think she might be bi? any advice?
     
  2. myheartincheck

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    Well it definately seems that way...

    With women you can never tell unless they just straight up tell you though lol and I don't know why I would offer advice on this when I have no gaydar...
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  3. wilted

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    Based on what you've described it sounds like she is at least bi. No one that is straight would say "I'm not going to answer that." I suggest you tell her you're bi and hopefully she will come out to you as well.
     
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    I think she is, but then again, my "gaydar" was never installed
     
  5. stainedglass

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    She certainly sounds not-straight to me.