Thought a list of books and other things that people have been read would be helpful. I'll start -- a couple of guys mentioned this book on coming out for us older guys -- Finally Out: Letting Go of Living Straight, A Psychiatrist's Own Story, Loren Olson Great book -- in every chapter I saw myself or things about myself that were so true. Next...
"Outing Yourself: How to come out as lesbian or gay to your family, friends, and coworkers" by Michelangelo Signorile. A 14-step program with exercises and first person accounts.
I don't have any suggestions, but can I add a question? Anybody know any good gay/bi fiction for guys? Especially self-discovery stories. I am Bi, solidly Bi, and I am trying to explore my homosexual side. I will watch this thread and take down some titles!! Thanks for posting it!