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Not sure if im straight or gay .

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by ALEXOFFICAL, Jan 10, 2013.

  1. ALEXOFFICAL

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    ever since i came upon a gay porn website 2/3 years ago - i have been usually easily arroused by it. Now thing is i only like watching men have sex , i would never do it in person i feel too weird about the idea. i also find SOME guys attractive . also , i also find girls Attractive , both sexually and emotionally . anyways why am i confused ? also as a kid. i was molested by a teenager . and i was wondering if that could be a reason why i like gay porn
     
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    If you're getting aroused by gay porn and you find men attractive, while also finding women attractive, then you're most likely bisexual. I highly doubt you being molested has anything to do with your sexuality.
    Have you ever been with anyone before?
     
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    There are certainly cases where people like watching gay porn but aren't actually gay. This could be the case with you, although time will tell.
     
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    You could feel weird about it because most people are raised to see same-sex relationships as weird. I used to think it was weird too. But once I tried it, I realized that it was what I always craved.