Not sure how many read my other thread here but I mentioned all my relationships have been with girls and I have had a few long term ones and was truly in love with 2 but have been having attractions to guys for a few years. Recently felt very confused on things. Would it make sense to maybe discreetly meet up with someone and possibly experiment with what I'm feeling? I just really do not know.
I think that would be a pretty good idea, but only if you're extremely careful. It would be a better idea to experiment with someone you know.
Thing is I don't know anyone like that I could discreetly experiment with. This is another reason its tough for me.
Sure, there is nothing wrong with experimenting. Like Anthemic said, you definitely need to be careful though. Also be aware that it is not uncommon to feel dirty or regret a random/anonymous hookup after it's over, no matter if you're questioning your sexuality or completely fine with it. Doing it with someone you know, trust, and are comfortable with is best, but the thing is that is often hard to find for things like this, lol.
You're right Lance it is. I do want to try and I hope I will be able to find someone I can be comfortable with trying it even though it most likely would end up being a stranger. Thanks for the replies Anthemic and Lance!
You are very welcome! I hope you find someone. All it took for me to know was a kiss. Everything else came years after and it was great!
At the very least I would maybe go on some phone "apps" and try to get to know a person a little bit for a few days and then decide to meetup with them, but that is just me. I'd feel more comfortable doing that than just going on craigslist and heading over to someones place in the same day for sexual exploration.
Thats what I was thinking too. The thought of craigslist hookups honestly freak me out. Too many craigslist murder movies I guess. LOL!
