Lesbian Gone Back To Boys??

hmm...maybe you are gender fluid, and bisexual? or pansexual? is that a problem?

PS: I like a couple guys you know...and I feel very straight have liked women I know forever...so, maybe I am 90% straight and gay for a couple men. If I don't ever tell them or date them I can go on thinking I am straight...but does it really matter?

 

Sexuality is fluid. Love is blind, they say.
Don't worry too much about it. I'd keep the 'gay label' if you'd consider yourself 85%+ for the same team. And to be a sexual orientation, keep in mind that you're physically/sexually and emotionally attracted.
Ovulation might have something to do with it. Reproduction used to be how our species survived.

 

Don't worry about it. I identify as lesbian but if Gerard Butler was in the room I'd wanna get in his pants. Maybe he is like your only exception

 

I still get attracted to some boys. I met a boy at a party the other night and thought he was rad. I think if he asked me out I would go haha. But 99.9 per cent of the time I like girls and I fall hard for girls.

 

My attraction towards men, more specifically towards one man--the father of my kids occurs during ovulation only. I'm not sure what it means, but since it's very rare, I still identify as gay. I cannot fall in love with a man no matter how hard I've tried. I can appreciate a beautiful man, but usually from afar.

 

I would say you are experiencing hormonal changes. You need to look into yourself George and see who is inside. You need to be comfortable with your sexuality. You may well be fluid sexually during ovulation. I think you know who you are and perhaps outside forces influence your feelings as well. Hang in there guy. It will all be good in the end.

 

Sexual orientation is a spectrum, not a binary. I consider myself a lesbian too, but I have also been attracted to the rare guy. I'm like 90% gay, but I don't ignore the other 10%.

 

Well... if you had a huge crush on him for years, it doesn't sound like you are gay. Which is fine, even if it's just barely bisexual. I can't say I understand that, but I guess it's like when straight people have their "exception" or perhaps a "girl crush." You know, whatever. It's all good.

 

l can second most of what's said with an exception:

There is no "one man" l'm attracted to. Like an actor or anyone l know or have known. Doesn't happen, l don't think any man is "cute". lt's more like when l experience certain hormonal changes, any PERSON could be someone l would have sex with no matter what they looked like...lol.

with ovulation...really might be something to that. l've felt like my body is trolling me sometimes, into reproducing, l'm assuming.

l have been turned on by on all kinds of porn while ovulating. l might want to have sex with a man and l actually have enjoyed sex with men in the past while being in that state.

what it boils down to for me is that the second l'm not in the crazed sex mood, it's totally vanished. Completely. This means l also can't have a crush on a boy so there's nothing to get over. And they don't get me in that mood, it's already there.

lt's basically like me being already being extremely horny and using a man's body to satisfy it. l don't know about other women here identify as gay, but if anything LOOKING at certain parts of a man's body while having sex with him made me MUCH less horny and l'm not being dramatic lol.

You have to think about how sexual desire can develop completely independently of the person you're using to satisfy it because for me that's happened a lot.

ALSO: something about kissing specifically, l can't do this and like it even while VERY turned on. Have never been able to enjoy this with men.

 

^Same with me. The last crush I had on a guy was years ago, but I'm open to the idea of having a crush on a guy again.

I wouldn't worry too much about it. When I ovulate I can't be held responsible for my actions.

 

I know exactly what you're talking about. A girl I fancied when I thought I was straight now goes to the same University as me, and as soon as I saw her my feelings came flooding back, I was crazy over her. I think just because you realise you're gay doesn't mean crushes that you've had disappear, but at the same time, these crushes are from the past and mean little today. My advice would be to tell this person how you feel so you can get over him and your confusion can seize, because it's not nice, you begin to question everything you know, in my case, the crush just seemed to disappear over time, because we drifted apart, I can't say whether this will happen for your situation. Either way, best of luck

 

You're still young and despite what you may think you don't have to be tied down to a label. I'm bi but I mostly lean towards men but really if I came across a girl I really loved I wouldn't be afraid of going out with her. Sometimes you need to experience some things