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Breaking The Ice - First Kiss / More With Same Gender

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by coastgirl, Jan 12, 2013.

  1. coastgirl

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    Ok. So I have started to like my friend (also a lesbian) and I feel like there's a decent chance of something happening. But my problem is that I am so scared of doing something. I'm worried that it will never go anywhere unless I make a move or say something first...but it's so terrifying to have to make a move on someone who you know has experience when you have no experience at all. I've kissed guys, but it's been years, and I haven't kissed a girl yet or done anything physical. I do want to, but I feel so far away from it ever happening.

    Does anyone have any tips on dealing with this or getting over the paralyzing fear?