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australian heartbreak

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by bigbenny, Jan 15, 2013.

  1. bigbenny

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    So basically I just found out I was in love with a straight guy. i know everyone of us does that but i reeeeeeaaaally thought he was gay. im not getting into details but lets just say he was the gayest acting straight guy in the world. i literally just ran out of tears from crying so much. i mean ive never even once thought about suicide but now i really dont want to even live. the entire time ive known him ive been so much happier and doing stuff instead of being depressed and playing video games in my room. i just feel like nothing in my life is worth it now, like what am i even waking up to tomorrow? nothing.
    and yea i know my grammar deteriorated in this post because i dont even care about grammar now.
    post whatever you want, but my life isnt getting any better.
     
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    um, there are more guys in this world. have you try looking further?

    also, idk what is the deal with gayest straight guy or whatever that is haha
     
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    That sucks, I'm sorry. There will be other guys, I promise.
     
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    Hey. (*hug*)

    Obviously you care for this guy quite a lot. Even so, there's no guy in the world worth hurting yourself over. There is always plenty of reason to wake up in the morning, and plenty more guys out there. Take a step back, and a deep breath and stop thinking about it and go do something else for a while. I find weird things like going for a jog around the block, or going and playing Mario Kart can do wonders.

    As one of the previous posters said. There are plenty more guys out there. Don't let one straight guy get you down. You're worth more than that.

    Hope you feel better. And seriously. Get up from the computer and go do something that isn't thinking about over and over - it will work wonders.
     
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    Yes .. It hurts but with time, and rest, and some distractions, you will get to feel better. Try not to stress, get out and meet some friends..,
     
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    I had someone who I really liked, who I thought was gay but turned out not to be. It was depressing but we're both young. Forgive me for the cliche`s but there are plenty of other fish in the sea. Anyways you two can still be friends. Him being straight doesn't take away for that. :rolle:
     
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    You guys are probably right, except I really dont think we can be friends. I want to throw up when I even think about him. So I'll go tell him today that we can't be friends anymore. Really sucks too, he was the nicest person I've ever met.
     
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    .. do you need to say "can't be friends" so soon?
    Sounds very "final"
    you could just distance a bit ... stay acquaintances
    keep all options open..(?)