Hello! So basically I've always had really low self esteem, low self image, and no confidence in myself. I'm really trying hard to change that this year( I came out late last year so this is like my fresh start) but I'm having trobule. Every time I feel good something changes and I go back to feelin like shit. I really want to be able to interact with strangers and befriend them (I traveling Europe alone right now so I need to) and go on dates with guys but I'm so self conscious... I get nervous and don't act like myself How can i improve my image of myself and just be confident in myself? Thank you
It is.. a state of mind. If it helps you, observe how other people interact. That is with social awkwardness though, I'm not sure if it's the same wtih low self-esteem or not. x_x I'm an Aspie, and i've picked up on a few things over the years to be "more normal". I'm still awkward, but I know how to fake it. ^_^'
Being able to talk and interact with perfect strangers is one of those skills that I believe only a handful of people actually have. I would say it is more normal not to have them and you should not feel bad about it. I have massive self confidence issues aswell and know where you are coming from. A bit of liquid encouragement in the form of a couple of drinks usually gets me going, not blind drunk but one or two certainly make things easier, thats what I have to do in clubs.
