I have this fear that when I do get in a real relationship I will cause it to crumble away. I don't know how to make it stop.
I used to have that feeling.. but it faded after I got in a few relationships with some girls.. I think you just need to learn for yourself how relationships work out.. It gets easy after that.. and you learn what you want as well as what your partner wants
Meh it's just anxiety dude. If you find yourself a real realtionship it shouldn't feel like you should have to work (very hard) to maintain it. Relationships are suppose to be fun, not stressful!
Thats a true statement for anything in life. I got a new car and was worried I would crash it and it would be done! Or a new job, friends, lovers. What you have to remember some things crumble, some crash and burn, but also some last forever! There is no guarentee in life. If there was with everything, where would the fun and adventure be? Don't worry, life isn't so bad, and neither is love!
