Hello, I recently came across your board in search of some answers. I have been married for 3 yrs to a wonderful man but I think he may be gay which is fine but He's trying to hide it. At first he looked at regular porn and then i would find he was looking more at men before he would have sex with me. Its all so confusing because he knows how i feel i support anyones right to their own beliefs etc. I have had a few family members try and deny their feelings and so say live a "normal" life and it didnt work. I guess I just want some help in how I can maybe ask him or help him? thank you everyone for your time!
Follow your gut instinct. Bring it up to him and let him know u support him either way. Don't waste your years married to him only to find out too late that he is gay. He might lie and deny it to you at first (or for years to come). I've been where you are. If this wasn't a public forum I'd give you my email. He might not even know himself yet. He could be in deep deep denial about it. To the point he has suppressed it. The most important thing you can do is be supportive of him. Let him know you will be there (if you plan to be). But you have to talk to him.
