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coming out tommorrow

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by hoping, Mar 2, 2008.

  1. hoping

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    ive decided that i have to come out tommorrow cause i have to see my boyfriend openly i dont want to keep us a secret. and since we are going to start going away together i thought i should finally say it. wish me luck everyone
     
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    Good luck. Do you know anything about how people are going to take?
     
  3. hoping

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    my mum will probably take it better than my father. i know my father will hit the roof but i dont really care about that i havent talked to him since august last year
     
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    Good luck hoping!!! I hope it goes well.
     
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    Good Luck!

    are you just telling your parents?
     
  6. hoping

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    yeah first ill just tell my parents then after they get used to it ill tell everyone else
     
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    Good luck! It's great that you would do this for your boyfriend. That's a real sign of your commitment and honesty to him!
     
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    :goodluck: :goodluck: :goodluck: and a few (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*) for encouragement.
     
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    Good luck, bud. Keep us posted.
     
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    good luck!
     
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    Good luck!!!
     
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    good luck, but just a word of advice... maybe tell your parents you r gay, and let that settle in before you tell them you have a bf.
     
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    good luck!
     
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    hahah. there were already so many of these, but ill add to the list. GOOD LUCK. :]
     
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    Best of luck
     
  16. hoping

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    thinks got pretty fucked up last night i was talking to my boyfriend and now hes says he doesnt want to sneak around and have a realtionship but he cant come out yet cause he works at the christan school and hes afriad hell get fired. and he said he can definitley come out in 9 months wen his traineeship is over but i dont think i can wait that long. i just dont know wat to do. anyway now i have no reason to come out so i didnt but thanks everyone for your good wishes
     
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    what an ironic and interesting turn of events, come out when u feel good about it sir. And start by telling people u know wont be bothered; the "get the hardest stuff over first" theory doesnt work for coming out, trust me.
     
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    good luck [good luck]