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am i lazy or depressed?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by MerBear, Jan 22, 2013.

  1. MerBear

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    okay so lately , i haven't been wanting to do anything but lay in bed. i just want to sleep.
    there's this book , i wanted to read but now i don't have the urge to and recently , i haven't had much of an appetite and i don't have the urge to eat much either but i mean maybe im just lazy because i was happy but then again , i've been on a roller coaster of emotions ever since my ex left so your opinion?
     
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    You sound a little depressed(*hug*)
    they have some test online that can help more with that.

    Sorry about you ex.(*hug*) If you want to talk I'm all ears.
     
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    thank you :slight_smile:
     
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    I've been feeling that way lately myself
     
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    It sounds like your upset, not lazy (*hug*) I went through that for awhile, but I eventually got back on my toes. Maybe you just need to rant a little bit, get some stuff off your chest. I hope you get to feeling better :thumbsup:
     
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    between the issues with your ex, your dad and your sister....it's much more likely that you're depressed rather than lazy....and you're not alone :frowning2:

    (*hug*)
     
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    That sounds like depression... or some kind of vitamin deficiency. I feel like that when I do not eat properly.
    It may not be a bad idea to see a therapist or doctor.
     
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    it wouldnt be a bad idea but i dont therapists or counsellors
     
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    I know over-sleeping is a defense mechanism to deal with depression. I don't think you're lazy. I've learned that trying to keep optimistic, socializing, and stepping back to make mental checks on my health helps. Listen to rap music, write inspiring quotes on your room wall, surround yourself with positive people. Sooner or later it will pass and you will realize what an idiot your ex was to have left you :slight_smile: