A couple questions regarding tell your roomate you are gay.

Sorry for the long read. Just skip tot he last couple lines to save time.

Okay, here I go. I have been out for just over two years. I been a my college for a little over a year and I am generally out. Well we are just about two thirds of the way through the new school year. I live in student housing and have five male roomates. We live in like a four bedroom apartment so it is not as bad as it sound. As to be expected I am the only gay person in our dorm. I am really close to one of my roomates and his girlfriend. Like I feel like we are on our way to be really good friends. Before it is even asked he is attractive but I am not attracted to him. He is just a friend and I love his girlfriend shes awesome.

Alright I am getting sidetracked. My roomate as previously mentioned knows I am gay. His girlfriend asked me and I confirmed it and she told him. The issue is my other roomate just dosen't realize I am gay as well as a few new friends I have made. I am the type of person that usually holds my guard up until I really get to know you. Also I am not going to tell you I am gay unless you ask. Usually I don't have to because most people pick up on it. So I usually don't bother telling that I am gay.

I might be sidetracked again. Sorry! Anyways one of my roomates last night just dosen't get it! HE insinuated that I have relations with several girls that are JUST my friends. Somehow I always end up being friends with goodlooking women. Hope it dosen't sound bad. I thought it was previously establish that he knew I was gay. His friend outright asked me infront of him. I said yes. He just dosent believe I am gay and I do not know how to make he realize I am gay. I say jokes and little thing here and there to make him put it together but its seems to be in one ear and out the other.

I have this issue with a few friends and I just dont know how to make the understand I am gay.

P.S Please dont be confused I am a very proud gay man but they just cant see it for some reason.

Sorry for the long read but Thanks for reading.

 

Lol I feel like its not their buisness but at the same time I gets old with them saying im fucking my friends. Especially when Ive been friends with them for a long time.