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If I were a guy...

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Different, Jan 30, 2013.

  1. Different

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    Does anyone else feel that if you were a guy you would treat girls with so much respect? I don't know it's just... Ughh I don't know how to put it into words! I've always wanted to be that girl who brought flowers and chocolates over to her house for valentines day, or take her out to dinner, or drive her around town, or whatever... I think you get the point. Does anyone else feel this way too?
     
  2. skiff

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    Hi,

    You have bought into a stereotype marketed by Madison Avenue, no?

    To be fair... In the past 40 years men have been taught woman are equals. Have you treated a guy/girl in that special fashion?

    This is fair and equal treatment is it not? You know how many guys got treated badly for holding a door open for a girl to get us to this point?

    Only thing better than this equal "stuff" is both people splitting the cost of the date.

    Now that's 2013 romantic. Sigh!!! tfpic

    Stuck
     
  3. Kgirl

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    I think respect needs to come from both sides :slight_smile:

    ---------- Post added 30th Jan 2013 at 11:34 PM ----------

    And now I have Beyonce's song in my head from the title of this... lol