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First date

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by wilted, Jan 31, 2013.

  1. wilted

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    So, I met this girl on an online dating site. She goes to my college. I've been talking to her for about a month. We've been texting and I really like her. I asked her to go on a date with me tomorrow. So, we're going to go see a movie. I'm really nervous. I've dated before, but I've never gone on a real first date. Does anyone have any first date advice?
     
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    (Wait have you met before?) the best advice there is is to stay calm. Look forward to it and be yourself. Try not to be self conscious or fidgety just relax and have fun :slight_smile:
     
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    No we haven't met before. We've just been texting for about a month.
     
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    DONT TALK DURING THE MOVIE! haha.
    What movie are you seeing? Make sure there is time to talk before and after watching the movie... :slight_smile:
     
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    Silver Linings Playbook. I'm picking her up like 45 minutes before the movie starts so that should give us some time to talk before the movie actually starts.
     
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    Good luck and remember to have fun :slight_smile:
     
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    First off be friendly and cheery in the car. Talk to her as if you are still online or texting? Be open and don't bombard her with questions. This is a date but you need to break the ice face to face. Take her to a restaurant after the movie where you can talk. Walk her to the door after and if you had a good date you can kiss her on the cheek. I would be slow as you two really have never met. I do wish you good luck. Hugs sweetie.