I definitely know I'm not straight..but I kind of wish I knew if I am bi or gay. I had a boyfriend In the past and was physically and emotionally attracted to him i think, but I know have a girlfriend who I am physically and emotionally attracted to. Lately I really can't imagine myself dating, having sex with, or marrying a man. I can see myself (and am obviously already dating) these things with a woman. I would lean towards being gay but I dont know what to make of my past attractions to men. Any ideas?
I suggest that you look at lesbian porn and see if it turns you on. I know that might sound a bit rude and unhelpful, but I can tell you that when I saw two hot men about to bang I can tell you I knew I was straight up gay...
It's kind of funny for me because I flirt with girls way more then guys. It's just kind of a habit. Don't get me wrong I am totally gay but with girls it just seems like the right thing to do and it makes being around them alot more interesting. I get myself into trouble with that alot hahaha. Be open to what happens you really shouldnt close yourself off to anyone because anything can happen.
Seeing how you have been with both that this gives more weight to consider you a bisexual not extremely 6 homosexual. Meaning that you are at best gay light and bisexual, so what does it matter? You don't have to be either or if youdon't want to be just realize not alll people ike that. It might seem a little insensitive that I wouldn't date a bisexual male even though I was bi at one time.
If you're unsure, then don't label yourself. Let yourself love who you want to, when it happens. When the time comes, call yourself what you want to. It might be too soon to decide your a lesbian. If you still want my opinion, though, I'd say you're probably gay.
