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I'm being groped!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by DeanIsHome, Feb 5, 2013.

  1. DeanIsHome

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    So today, in the hallway during passing period, a girl walks in front of me and asks if i want to go to a Saddie Hawkins dance with her on feb. 14th I don't even know her so i say no, she then walks right up in front of me (were almost same height) and she shoves her hands in front of my crotch and gropes it, now i did not get a hard on at all! and she was like "pshh you must be gay, they all are!" like WTF? YOU DON"T GROPE A STRANGERS BALLS IN FRONT OF YOU'RE CLASSMATES, I just wanted to know what you guys thought about that, I just hope she doesn't go around talking about how i didn't get hard...
     
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    Ummmm... that's sexual assault... I don't see why that would make any man hard... which is probably why she said "you're probably gay, they all are." Uh no sweetheart, there just aren't men who want you to randomly grab their balls publically... :confused:
     
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    Exactly what I said to her! but i wouldn't get hard from her anyway...
     
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    [​IMG]

    I think...I'm not certain about this...but she may have a couple of screws missing. I also find it hard to believe that any straight guy could have got a hard on in that situation either.
     
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    People think because I'm gay they can touch me in any way shape or form and it sucks. I'd report her to be honest. ©©
     
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    That's true, but she seems like a kind of a creep to me... If she spreads rumors just say "She thinks all guys are gay just because she doesn't turn them on by randomly groping them..."

    It seems like a good cover up and well reason in general for not being aroused.
     
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    Well, it largely depends on what age you/she are. Maybe not largely, but it certainly affects your course of action.
     
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    I wouldn't report her or anything cause then i'd feel a bit bad even though she's at fault, but i think she's super desperate or something.
     
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    If she said "they all are" I'm guessing she's done this groping thing before. I'm at least let school administrators know. That's sexual assault and most schools have a zero tolerance policy. If anything, maybe she'll get some help, which she obviously seems to need....
     
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    Sounds to me like she might not be able to handle the thought of someone not going out with her, so she's gonna boost her ego and simultaneously try to crush yours.

    Well... maybe.

    In any event, she's quite a forward bully. I've never heard of anything quite so bold. myheartincheck is right. That's a sexual assault. She'll most likely try it again unless someone stops her.
     
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    She's weird. Maybe she thinks you're cute and by "they all are" she means all the cute guys are gay. I dunno.
     
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    What a weirdo. If she talks about what happened, you should definitely report her.
     
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    You should report her even if you don't want her to be in trouble but it sounds like this girl really needs help and could get it if you report her :/
     
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    I think you should report her, so she learns to curb her behavior.

    Before she encounters someone like me, who reacts very badly to having someone enter that space and put their hands on them suddenly. :3
     
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    This is really bad an totally unacceptable.

    Unless someone saw this, its going to be he said/ she said... so think carefully

    And regardless, stay far far away from her.

    I'm so sorry this happened to you.
     
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    Sounds like a girl who's really desperate or if she does spread rumors about it than I would conclude that she is an attention whore like most of the girls in my school
     
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    That's what I'm thinking
     
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    What can you do? (don't yu wish you had a time machine or something)